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Day Thirteen-Eighteen: The Detour
What a few days it's been since writing to you last. I'm part of a Singles Facebook Group and ended up going for a "meet up" with a guy...
Effy
Oct 23, 20242 min read
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Day Twelve: Deja Vu
If I imagine these 60 days as a clock, we are now at 12 minutes past the hour. And today has been a really hard day. I have really wanted...
Effy
Oct 17, 20241 min read
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Day Nine: I think he's gone.
Okay, so don't judge me. I have absolutely still been sharing my WhatsApp statuses and including him this weekend. And he always ...
Effy
Oct 14, 20241 min read
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Day Seven: How did I get this far?
And, just like that, we're a week down! The thing is, I've never actively tried "No Contact" before, so I'm pleased I got this far. I...
Effy
Oct 12, 20241 min read
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Tools to help with No Contact
I went No Contact on Saturday 5th October at 10.30am. Here are the tools/social media accounts and just stuff that are helping me...
Effy
Oct 11, 20241 min read
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Day Six: Did I break No Contact?
We are now 6 days into No Contact. And this week has been tough. It's why I didn't really journal. I've been thinking about him, seeing...
Effy
Oct 11, 20241 min read
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Day Three: Positive changes
I am now hot-desking at an office to get me out of the house and around other people. I really feel sad for him. He's not going to see th...
Effy
Oct 11, 20241 min read
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Day Two: The universe works in mysterious ways
Overnight, I'd received a text from SP (an old match) and a guy I'd given my number to a few weeks back - as well as an Instagram DM from...
Effy
Oct 11, 20241 min read
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Day One: "Broke Up"
I went to the cinema with him last night. The first meeting as "just friends" - but I texted him to tell him I still liked him and I...
Effy
Oct 11, 20242 min read
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